disordered characters

Disordered characters are already keenly aware of the ways their thinking and behavior cause problems. There isn't one thing anyone can say or bring to their attention that they haven't heard a thousand times before from a variety of sources, or experienced in a variety of circumstances.
       "They already see; they simply disagree.
       " They're just not disturbed enough by their way of doing things;
                             or they may have been successful enough getting their way
                         by doing those things, so they're resolved not to change that modus operandi.

                 Because they do the things they do so automatically and habitually,
                     it can seem like they're unaware. But doing things that are second nature
                                     seem to be just what will pass the pain of the moment.

the Hustler with Paul Newman Quotes

Your roman burt , you have to win them all.
 is that how you look when youv'e taken all his money and now you want to take his pride.
He hates you because of what you have and he doesn't.
You're not a loser, Eddie, you're a winner. Some men never get to feel that way about anything.

“The big difference between people is not between the rich and the poor, the good and the evil.  The biggest of all differences between people is between those who have had pleasure in love and those who haven’t.”

you can't have just talent, you have to have character too.
yea , and I got character now. I picked it up in a hotel room in liusville.

 Shoot pool, yea fats I'm shooting pool, when I miss you can shoot too.

So you think I'm a loser,
Is he a winner? he owns things. Does that make him a winner?

if it didn't happen in lousville it would have happened somewhere else.
because your dead inside you can't live unless you make everything dead all around you.
she lived she lived.
Your not a loser eddie, your a winner. Some men never get to feel that way about anything.

You can't live

unless you make

everything else

dead around you!

                   

I want to talk.
Do we need words?
We could try
to cut each other up.

                   

You know what's good for him?
         

To win.

For whom
and for what?
What makes
the world go round?
For money
and for glory.
For whom?
Today for me.
Tomorrow for himself





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When I feel overwhelmed by others

"God cannot give us a happiness and peace apart from Himself, because it is not there. There is no such thing." - C. S. Lewis

best friend?

 The term fake love in itself does not make that much sense. How can someone express love, which is feeling that provides unconditional caring and commitment, and then call it fake. The only real way to have fake love for someone is to not love at all, but just to think you love. In the movie The Truman Show there are many individuals whom exhibit an illusion of love for the main character, Truman. At the beginning of the movie many of the characters appear to have genuine love for Truman.

  However, as the movie progresses almost all of the people whom are close to Truman, show in one way or another how they only think they love him. The best examples of these types of characters are his wife, his best friend, and his creator. His own wife, someone whom should be completely faithful and truthful with him lies to him on a daily basis. Her fake love is most clear when she crosses that line between actress and a real person. When she is acting she is trying her best to portray a woman whom truly loves him, but after seeing her act for so long even Truman can see her real personality underneath. He spots a person whom in real life cannot even stand him, but she puts a vale on to cover that. She probably really would like to love him but she cannot change the person she is any more than Truman can. Truman's best friend has the same fake love traits as his wife. Even though they were friends from children they always had a secret between them. He had the illusion of loving Truman probably just because he had known him so long. Though, once you've lied to a person over and over the love is gone. He lied so many times that by the end of the film it could be seen that even at Truman's worst moment he could lie to him to keep his job and the show going on.

Getting fit and triming down

"If you asked me “Dr. K, what is the ONE thing you would recommend I do, over all others, to lose weight”, I would have absolutely no hesitation in my answer. It would always be “keep a food diary”. People who keep food diaries lose more weight than people who don’t. It’s as simple as that."

 (excerpt from a book on my kindle)

Do ten push-ups every morning for a year

                                             ( my idea)

Danger

Danger gives many warning signs. Sudden disaster happens after repeatedly ignoring danger.










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Being Alone ...finding peace....

" If you meet a loner, 
no matter what they tell you, 
it's not because they enjoy solitude. 
It's because they have tried to blend into the world before, 
and people continue to disappoint them. ”

Trying sompthing new

Took a trip to the convention center on the OCTA bus tonight with a bus pass somebody game me. I thought I would try somptina  different
 out of my routine.

Transistion

On my way home tonight I noticed an ambulance transporting an elderly person who appeared to have his best days behind him. May my time from now until the time of transistion be used most wisely.

journey thru the mist

So teach us to number our days, that we may apply our hearts unto wisdom.

  Our life is but a vapor.