Disordered Characters

it can seem like they're unaware but disordered characters are already keenly aware of the ways their thinking and behavior cause problems. There isn't one thing anyone can say or bring to their attention that they haven't heard a thousand times before from a variety of sources, or experienced in a variety of circumstances. 
  "They already see; they simply disagree." 
             They're just not disturbed enough by their way of doing things; or they may have been successful enough getting their way by doing those things, so they're resolved not to change that modus operandi. Because they do the things they do so automatically and habitually, it can seem like they're unaware.